Single On Valentine's Day?

Valentine’s Day is one of the most exciting days of the year. It is a day of exchanging flowers, cards, and loving feelings of affection, admiration and infatuation. Valentine’s Day is a day of year for love, romance and passion. But when you are single, every so often, you want to throw things at those happy couples.

Being dateless on Valentine’s Day can stir up feelings of solitude and self doubt. What would a person do when he or she is feeling the nerve cracking blues of being single instead of embracing the burning desire of love? The most important message that singles should remember on Valentine’s Day is that love is not just for couples, it is for all of us to celebrate and enjoy.

Do something else on Valentine’s Day. Think, that it is not about love and relationship, Think of it as a commercial holiday. Get together with friends, family members, the people who loves you, these are the people who already have relationships with you.

You should start to think and find ways of creating the relationship you want and find ways to work on becoming the person your partner would eventually fall in love with. Try every avenue.

Why not try your hand at speed dating, or online dating sites which are very popular. Speed dating is a great practice for getting onto comfortable ground with a man or a woman who you know is single, also seeking and has little option but to talk to you if only for a few minutes and from there, maybe you could start with something else.

Sitting alone at home, you’ll never meet any attractive woman or a handsome man. For the guys, commit to venture out and practice to approach and talk to women at night in bars or nightclubs or at coffee shops. You could also take up an evening class, like yoga, cooking, dancing lessons or join a gym. You get a chance to get familiar with regulars and staff overtime in these environments. 

Better yet, you can always cheer up and surprise someone who has inspired you and tell them how much they mean to you. Send flowers or candy to someone who doesn’t have a sweetheart, and sign it anonymous and why not take your little nephew, niece or cousin out for a date.

Yes, it is possible to have a great Valentine’s Day, even when things are looking a little depressing.